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In a recent post, David Epstein quoted an interview with Murakami back in 2004:

When I’m in writing mode for a novel, I get up at four a.m. and work for five to six hours. In the afternoon, I run for ten kilometers or swim for fifteen hundred meters (or do both), then I read a bit and listen to some music. I go to bed at nine p.m. I keep to this routine every day without variation. The repetition itself becomes the important thing; it’s a form of mesmerism. I mesmerize myself to reach a deeper state of mind. But to hold to such repetition for so long—six months to a year—requires a good amount of mental and physical strength. In that sense, writing a long novel is like survival training. Physical strength is as necessary as artistic sensitivity.

Murakami mentioned ‘writing mode’, which suggests different cycles of focused work. Cal Newport mentioned something similar in his recent podcast on a 4 month period to reinvent one’s life. He provides specific plans, with the first step being the discipline layer by setting up 3 key daily habits (one on professional, one health, and one personal) for the first two weeks.

I like the idea of having different 3-4 months focused mode within a year, which is a good way to avoid the December/January habit changing peak season trap. But I find it hard to stick to a weekly or daily planning routine.

Whether we call it discipline, grit, or habit, smart effort sustained over time tends to produce results. Since we all have different genetic endowments, it makes more sense to measure our progress against ourselves than others. For late bloomers (and I would consider myself one), we might feel like it’s too late to start many pursuits. But there’s no point in lamenting things that we didn’t learn or do in the past. We may not become the best in any pursuit, but we can improve in many of them. The good thing is, no one knows what potential we have, and it’s good to have aspirations and pursuits regardless of our age.

Andrew Huberman has a good summary of recent research on goal setting.

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New Year resolutions usually don’t last, and most people return to life as usual by February. This is not as depressing as it sounds. End-year provides a good opportunity to reflect and New Year resolution is more a by-product of the changes we want to make. The best way to make changes is to alter our habits, and developing/changing habits can start anytime. So if things don’t work out in January, maybe try again in February in different ways.  I find it easier to change thing one at a time than all at once, so it makes more sense to space out changes we want to make throughout the year.

I don’t have many ambitious goals this year (to achieve anything significant would likely require more than a year anyway). If I can form a few good habits sometime during the year, I’d be happy.

Below is a video summary of Charles Duhigg’s book on habit, and Alex Tabarrok’s review here.

More on New Year resolutions and the time it takes to form habits.

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New habits I like: blogging; Thai boxing; swimming

Travel to over 20 cities. The more memorable ones are places where I get to know new people, learn/try something new, or catch-up with existing friends.  

Highlights: property tour in Chengdu, Chongqing, and Sanya; business trip in Columbo, Mumbai, and Delhi; vacation in Rome and Florence; backpacking in Kunming, Lijiang, and Dali; guy trip to macau; catching up with friends in Singapore, Shanghai, and London; attending my best friend’s wedding in Maldives.

Reflect more on books I read. My favorites (in no particular order):

Other activities I enjoy: windsurfing, squid fishing, watch live soccer and rugby games (my takeaway: trying thing for the first time is often enjoyable, especially activities that involve learning new skills or something about yourself); hiking; snorkeling; basketball; coming up with names 

Relationship goes well. Traveling to another city just to catch up with good friends is definitely worth it; steady and peaceful family life with plenty of home cooked food and a nice Christmas dinner.

Finance also goes well. I like Jacob’s Early Retirement Extreme philosophy. Todd’s How Much Money Do I Need to Retire? is a good short guide on retirement planning.

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