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Alternating between the sauna, ice bath, and hot bath has become one of my weekly routines. Before it became trendy and common, I used to do it occasionally when I travelled. Nowadays, there are many options available. When I found a place near where I live a few years ago, I thought it was one of my best discoveries.

I like the idea of doing something uncomfortable. My body tends to tolerate heat well, but not cold. In the past, when I travelled to London or Japan during winter or a place with strong aircon, I needed more layers and jackets. Nowadays, I can tolerate both heat and cold well, which makes life easier.

It also helps me sleep better, but its effect on training recovery is marginal. I avoid ice baths after strength workouts and do them on aerobic days.

Once a week seems optimal for me, factoring in time, cost, and value. I like having a midweek recovery day. The time in the sauna and baths gives me a chance to relax, reflect, and focus on my breath. Once in a while, I also get to socialize with interesting people. In that sense, the routine is not only about recovery. It is also a weekly practice in discomfort, stillness, and reflection.

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This year, the school allowed parents to watch the primary inter-school basketball competition for the first time. According to his teacher, Link kept asking whether I had arrived because he was worried I wouldn’t make it in time. I think he had been looking forward to competing in front of his dad. Likewise, I was glad to watch him play.

Link scored 14 points and helped lead his team to a 20–2 victory. He has good individual skills for his age. His playing style reminds me of Rukawa from Slam Dunk, relying heavily on isolation plays. To reach the next level, he’ll need to bring out the best in his teammates, improve his basketball IQ, and better manage his emotions.

The primary school rims were lower than standard ones. After the games, I casually jumped up and hung on one with both hands. Some of Link’s teammates saw it, causing a small ruckus as the boys took turns trying to touch the backboard. Later that day, Link told me I had become popular among the boys because of it.

I usually don’t care much about how others perceive me and prefer to judge myself by my own standards. Still, it felt good to be seen as cool by my son’s peers. I suppose we all want to be someone our loved ones can be proud of.

I should cherish this period while he still looks up to me. In a few years, he’ll probably surpass me in basketball, be less impressed by what I know, and perhaps even find me old-fashioned or embarrassing. Until then, I’m grateful to have a place in this chapter of his life.

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Link and I went to the NBA Rising Stars Invitational, which featured top high school teams from across Asia. Tickets for the weekday games were affordable, even for courtside seats, and we managed to watch both the girls’ and boys’ semi-finals.

Although we didn’t get a chance to take a selfie with Jeremy Lin, we did win a Hornets cap by taking part in a free-throw game, and also grabbed a free towel and T-shirt during the halftime toss.

It was a good experience for Link to see players not much older than him competing with that level of skill, physicality, and effort. If Link continues to improve, maybe one day I’ll be watching him play at an event like this.

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Our family went to Bangkok for a one week trip. Since I lived there when I was young, I still have many friends in the city, and my nephew is studying there. My aim was simply to have a relaxed trip catching up with friends and family.

One predictable challenge in Thailand is overeating. The cost of living is lower, the food is good, and most of our meals were at restaurants with people we wanted to see. To avoid gaining too much weight, we brought our badminton gear and a basketball with us. That allowed us to stay active by playing sports, both on our own and with friends. Bangkok turned out to be convenient for this. Badminton courts were easy to book, and we found several basketball courts near where we stayed.

These activities cost almost nothing, but for one of my boys, they were the highlights of the trip. This reminded me that travel does not have to revolve around sightseeing. Bringing some of our normal routines with us, especially sports, made the trip healthier and more memorable. It allowed us to enjoy good food without feeling too guilty, while also creating simple moments of bonding through activities. I think this is something we will do more often in future trips.

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It’s been a while since I prepared a meal for others. Back in university, a few friends and I had an informal cooking club, where each of us took turns cooking for the others every month. We took notes and documented our dishes and comments afterward. It was a good opportunity to get together with friends, try something new, and enjoy good food.

Recently, I decided to cook a meal for my family. When my boys said they wished there had been more food and wanted to eat my cooking regularly, I knew the meal was a success. While it’s satisfying to cook a nice meal and see others enjoy it, the opportunity costs are high. It took about two hours to prepare and cook, plus another one to two hours to plan and buy the ingredients. Since I don’t plan to become a chef, I think it’s something I’ll only do occasionally.

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A nicely written book about his relationship with his father, kids, and running, from the CEO of The Atlantic. Here’s an essay adapted from his book. I share many of his sentiments toward running, and I’m grateful that I can still run whenever I feel like it and see the world while running.

Excerpts:

Every action we take helps to build our habits. Quit once and it’ll be easier to quite the second time too.

When I arrive in a new city, I like to circle it with a run. I’ve seen more of the world while running than I have while walking.

I learned that pain has physical causes but that it’s mostly a mental process: we slow in races less because we reach our physical limits than because our minds get scared.

Only the disciplined ones in life are free. If you are undisciplined, you are a slave to your moods and your passions. –Eliud Kipchoge, two-time Olympic marathon gold medalist for Kenya

The sensation of growing stronger is one of the most beautiful things about this sport. As my training intensified, everything about my body–and my awareness of it–sharpened.

She hadn’t touched money or bought anything for two months. Her life had been distilled to its essence: run, eat, sleep, repeat.

Running has become part of my day where I disconnect from screens and let my mind drift usefully and turn over problems. It encourages simple habits–heathly sleep, healthy eating, moderate drinking–that help as much at 8 a.m. meetings as they do 6 a.m. runs.

It taught me to have total trust in the compound interest gained by steady day-by-day work. I got fast by running hard, consistently, and wasting very little time worrying about how ambitious my goals were.

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Playing sports with my boys has been a wonderful way to bond. We’ve taken lessons, watched videos, and practiced together. I didn’t have much formal training as a child and didn’t train efficiently, so I’m glad I can now relive some of my childhood dreams. Though I’m no longer young and need more recovery time, I’ve become more conscientious and train in a more productive way, and there are far more resources available today.

My ten year old son is already better at basketball than I was at his age. One of our rituals is playing one-on-one at the end of practice. Like Sawakita from Slam Dunk, we want to see at what age he can beat me when I’m playing seriously. I think he’ll feel the same satisfaction and joy like Sawakita did the first time he wins. This motivates me to stay fit and keep improving so I can be a worthy opponent.

One of this year’s most satisfying moments was winning a two-on-two pickup game against two middle/high school teenagers. While my son struggled on defense because of the height difference, he made his shots and held his own on offense. That experience inspired me to look for more parent–child team competitions so we can train and improve together.

Our family also started learning badminton together, and I’m considering integrating sports training into some of our trips. It seems like a great way to meet like-minded people and have fun while traveling.

Recent one-on-one games (I called it the Sawakita challenge):

Game 1:

Game 2:

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I like routine. I used to think that travel disrupts my routine, since I won’t be able to practice piano, draw, or train as normal. But now I think travel can provide a different type of routine, and it’s not a bad idea for the body to experience something different from time to time.

When I visit London during my annual work trip, I always run in Hyde Park. Similarly, when I visit Tokyo, I stay in a hotel not too far from Yoyogi Park so I can run there in the morning. This kind of infrequent routine has become something I value. Even though I don’t visit Manhattan often, a run in Central Park still brings back familiarity. An annual snowboarding trip to Naeba has also become a family tradition.

There is a trade-off between visiting new places and revisiting familiar cities. When we are young and haven’t seen many places, it makes sense to explore more. But when we are older and have a better sense of our preferences, revisiting places we like becomes more valuable.

I still enjoy exploring new places once in a while, but increasingly I also like to revisit places I like. It seems like as long as we are mindful about it, routine can be established anywhere, and infrequent routines can be as valuable as the regular ones. Be present and every day could be a perfect day.

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