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I drew this back in 2023

Like many basketball players, I’ve dreamed of being able to dunk. But when I was younger, I never took that dream seriously. At 180 cm, it felt unrealistic. I wasn’t particularly athletic, and I couldn’t even touch the rim.

In recent years, as I became fitter, I started seeing videos of people shorter than me jumping high enough to dunk. Most were younger, but they showed me it was possible. So I made a bet with my boys that I would dunk a small ball within five years, before turning 45. They both bet against me, which only made me more motivated.

My first recorded attempt was in May 2023, when I still couldn’t touch the rim. From there, I added strength training, plyometrics, sprinting, and jump-specific work to my routine. It took about half a year to touch the rim, another year to dunk a small massage ball, and then I plateaued.

Training in my 40s has been tough. Work, travel, sickness, poor sleep, and life events all interrupted my progress. Recovery takes longer, and pushing too hard usually leads to knee pain. Progress was slow, uneven, and sometimes frustrating.

But this year, almost three years after I started, I finally dunked a size 1 basketball, and eventually a size 3 basketball. While it is not as cool as dunking a proper basketball in a game, it is good enough for me. I don’t want to risk injury chasing too much more, though a size 5 alley-oop dunk remains an optional next challenge.

My boys treated me to ice cream, and we also celebrated together at one of our go-to izakayas. This goal has little practical value for most people, but it gave me tremendous satisfaction. I’m happy to have finally fulfilled a childhood dream.

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In his new book “Hidden Potential“, Adam Grant shares some advice on how to reach our potential. He believes “the most meaningful form of performance is progress. The ultimate mark of potential is not the height of the peak you’ve reached, but the distance you traveled–and helped others travel.”

If our focus is on progress and the distance traveled, it’s important to stay motivated, especially when things get tough. Adam Grant provides guidance on staying motivated:

“Engage in mental time travel.” Track your progress and consider how your past self would view your current achievements.

“Turn the daily grind into a source of daily joy.” Be creative and design practice around deliberate play. Set up fun skill-building challenges and introduce novelty and variety into practice.

“Be proactive about rest and recovery.”

When stuck, try a different path, seek out multiple guides, try a side project or hobby to maintain forward momentum and a credible source that helps point to the right direction.

One takeaway is that hard work alone is not enough. Continuous progress demands a degree of conscientiousness, creativity, and a willingness to experiment.

Below are some other advice he provides on learning:

Try new ways to learn.

Practice your skills before you feel ready.

Seek discomfort.

Set a mistake budget.

Listen to coaches who have relevant expertise, know you well, and want what’s best for you.

Strive for excellence, not perfection. Practice wabi sabi, the art of honoring beauty in imperfection, by identifying some shortcomings that you can accept. Consider where you truly need the best and where you can settle for good enough.

Be your own last judge.

Compete against yourself.

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