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Alternating between the sauna, ice bath, and hot bath has become one of my weekly routines. Before it became trendy and common, I used to do it occasionally when I travelled. Nowadays, there are many options available. When I found a place near where I live a few years ago, I thought it was one of my best discoveries.

I like the idea of doing something uncomfortable. My body tends to tolerate heat well, but not cold. In the past, when I travelled to London or Japan during winter or a place with strong aircon, I needed more layers and jackets. Nowadays, I can tolerate both heat and cold well, which makes life easier.

It also helps me sleep better, but its effect on training recovery is marginal. I avoid ice baths after strength workouts and do them on aerobic days.

Once a week seems optimal for me, factoring in time, cost, and value. I like having a midweek recovery day. The time in the sauna and baths gives me a chance to relax, reflect, and focus on my breath. Once in a while, I also get to socialize with interesting people. In that sense, the routine is not only about recovery. It is also a weekly practice in discomfort, stillness, and reflection.

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Too much free time can be dangerous. It is easy to fall into temptations that offer short-term pleasure but little long-term satisfaction, or spend too much time ruminating on things outside our control. In my teens, I often reflected on meaning of life questions that had no clear answers. But as life becomes busier and obligations grew, those questions became less relevant. In that sense, busy work can be beneficial, as it provides structure and constraints to our free time and channels it to a clear objective.

Yet being too busy comes with its own cost. I want to be productive and dislike wasting time. So I often skim articles, listen to podcasts at 2.5x speed, and have back to back activities. That can be efficient, but it can also create a rushed existence in which important things can be easily overlooked. If I’m too rushed or goal oriented, I tend to be less patient, less kind, and less likely to enjoy the small joys and quiet beauty that exist.

Perhaps that is why I am drawn to Enuma Okoro’s column. She introduces me to paintings and connects them to our lives and times. I admire that way of engaging with art. But if the goal were simply to extract meaning, I could just ask ChatGPT to analyze a painting for me. What I rarely do, however, is slow down enough to look carefully, absorb what I am seeing, and connect it more deeply to life. I think that mindfulness is what I value most in her work.

To get the most out of her columns, I need to slow down, look at the paintings, and reflect on her thoughts. It is not surprising that she is a fan of David Whyte. Like her writing, his poems and essays reward slow reading and reflection. Maybe not everything requires this kind of mindfulness. But I think the more we can engage in this kind of awareness, the more alive we feel.

From her recent column:

One of the elements that I love about abstract works is how they compel us to patiently engage with what is in front of us until they reveal a new perspective, while also inviting us to learn how to sit with the discomfort of not knowing immediately what we are looking at. One of the many invitations that I think we can extract from this is to consider where in our own lives we are being invited to sit in the discomfort of not yet knowing and allowing room to slowly discern what might be in the process of being revealed to us. And also to consider what aspects of our lives may have already taken on a new shape or a new form, which is simply waiting for us to recognise it.

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I like routine. I used to think that travel disrupts my routine, since I won’t be able to practice piano, draw, or train as normal. But now I think travel can provide a different type of routine, and it’s not a bad idea for the body to experience something different from time to time.

When I visit London during my annual work trip, I always run in Hyde Park. Similarly, when I visit Tokyo, I stay in a hotel not too far from Yoyogi Park so I can run there in the morning. This kind of infrequent routine has become something I value. Even though I don’t visit Manhattan often, a run in Central Park still brings back familiarity. An annual snowboarding trip to Naeba has also become a family tradition.

There is a trade-off between visiting new places and revisiting familiar cities. When we are young and haven’t seen many places, it makes sense to explore more. But when we are older and have a better sense of our preferences, revisiting places we like becomes more valuable.

I still enjoy exploring new places once in a while, but increasingly I also like to revisit places I like. It seems like as long as we are mindful about it, routine can be established anywhere, and infrequent routines can be as valuable as the regular ones. Be present and every day could be a perfect day.

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From Berkeman’s book:

An alternative, Shinzen Young explains, is to pay more attention to every moment, however mundane: to find novelty not by doing radically different things but by plunging more deeply into the life you already have. Experience life with twice the usual intensity, and “your experience of life would be twice as full as it currently is”–and any period of life would be remembered as having lasted twice as long.

We might seek to incorporate into our daily lives more things we do for their own sake along–to spend some of our time, that is, on activities in which the only thing we’re trying to get from them is the doing itself.

…when presented with a challenging or boring moment, try deliberately adopting an attitude of curiosity, in which your goal isn’t to achieve any particular outcome, or successfully explain your position, but, as Hobson puts it, “to figure our who this human being is that we’re with.” Curiosity is a stance well suited to the inherent unpredictability of life with others, because it can be satisfied by their behaving in ways you like or dislike.

One of my aims this year is to be more mindful in my daily activities. More attention; less multitasking.

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I know many people who are feeling tired most of the time. They sleep enough hours but still feel tired and can’t concentrate well during the day. According to this article (gated), lack of sleep is not the main problem. It’s the quality of sleep and the state of mind that matter.

It’s not the kind of tiredness caused by a simple lack of sleep — more a feeling of near-permanent exhaustion that makes the brain feel as if it is constantly misfiring. Yet we also feel wired and hyper alert because of the swirl of stress hormones, so we may not even realise how deeply tired we are.

“This sense of fatigue is a pretty universal epidemic, and I see it all the time in my clinical work,” says psychologist Dr Cecilia d’Felice. “But there is nothing physically wrong, and it’s not really about sleep — it’s about a state of mind.”

What specialists think is happening is that we are bombarding our brains with too much information for too long during the day — whether it’s answering emails at 10pm or thinking up a new witticism to Tweet — and not allowing our brains sufficient recovery time. “We’re afraid to stop and do nothing because we feel this constant need to be in ‘doing mode’,” says physiologist Dr Nerina Ramlakhan, who runs a clinic for the chronically tired at a London hospital. “But we underestimate just how much mental effort is involved for the brain in processing all this information.”

And this sense of fatigue is bad for innovative and productive work:

The wired state that many of us live in during the day is a “hyper-arousal” caused by tiredness, stress hormones and caffeine and it has terrible effects on our ability to concentrate properly, focus and remember things. This hyper-aroused state is fine for simple, repetitive tasks, explains sleep expert Professor Jim Horne at Loughborough University. But as the task gets more complicated, we are less able to cope. “Anything involving innovation, problem-solving and higher thinking is impaired, and if it carries on for months and months it can end in burnout.”

What to do? The article recommends giving your brain a break:

The most vital thing is to give your brain a break from the onslaught of information. “We should ask ourselves, is it really important to check our emails at 10pm? Many of us are developing unhealthy relationships with our phones…

“The trouble is, checking your phone is quite addictive. We produce dopamine every time we respond to an alert on our phones, which is a chemical that wakes us up and makes us feel energised…

“There’s no hard and fast research on how long you can spend on your phone, tablet or laptop in the evenings before you start causing damage,” says Ramlakhan, author of Tired But Wired (Souvenir Press, £12.99). “But from my 20 years of work in this area, I recommend my patients go for an ‘electronic sundown’ 60-90 minutes before bed…

True information-overload junkies may require something stronger to rest their minds, and research shows meditation and the current buzzword “mindfulness” — learning to live in the moment to quiet the mind — can help…

What’s happening in the brain when we switch off – either by meditation or just letting our minds wander – is that the beta waves produced when we are alert are replaced by slower alpha waves (signifying a relaxed state) and then by much slower theta waves. “In a theta state – that daydreamy, glazed over state – your working memory begins to shut down,” says Ramlakhan. “You are essentially going ‘offline’ and consolidating, and your creativity increases. It’s a very important state to get into several times a day. Meditation is a conscious way of achieving it, but you could also get to it by walking or just ‘tuning out’. Walking has natural rhythm and is a meditation in itself.”

That’s probably why I find my solitary time walking back from my Muay Thai lesson and weekend hiking so relaxing. Daydreaming, doodling, playing guitar or just listening to music (without multitasking) are other ways that help relax my mind.

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