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Nice excerpts from The Marginalian on boredom, time, and how to deal with them:

Boredom is your window on time, on those properties of it one tends to ignore to the likely peril of one’s mental equilibrium. In short, it is your window on time’s infinity, which is to say, on your insignificance in it.

You are insignificant because you are finite. Yet the more finite a thing is, the more it is charged with life, emotions, joy, fears, compassion. For infinity is not terribly lively, not terribly emotional. Your boredom, at least, tells you that much. Because your boredom is the boredom of infinity.

So try to stay passionate, leave your cool to constellations. Passion, above all, is a remedy against boredom. Another one, of course, is pain… passion’s frequent aftermath… When you hurt, you know that at least you haven’t been deceived (by your body or by your psyche). By the same token, what’s good about boredom, about anguish and the sense of the meaninglessness of your own, of everything else’s existence, is that it is not a deception.

Try to embrace, or let yourself be embraced by, boredom and anguish, which anyhow are larger than you. No doubt you’ll find that bosom smothering, yet try to endure it as long as you can, and then some more. Above all, don’t think you’ve goofed somewhere along the line, don’t try to retrace your steps to correct the error. No, as the poet said, “Believe your pain.” This awful bear hug is no mistake. Nothing that disturbs you is. Remember all along that there is no embrace in this world that won’t finally unclasp.

What lies ahead is a remarkable but wearisome journey [on a] runaway train. No one can tell you what lies ahead, least of all those who remain behind. One thing, however, they can assure you of is that it’s not a round trip. Try, therefore, to derive some comfort form the notion that no matter how unpalatable this or that station may turn out to be, the train doesn’t stop there for good. Therefore, you are never stuck — not even when you feel you are; for this place today becomes your past… receding for you, for that train is in constant motion. It will be receding for you even when you feel that you are stuck. So… look at it with all the tenderness you can muster, for you are looking at your past.

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I spoke with several snowboarding instructors during my recent trip to Japan. One instructor from Poland teaches snowboarding in the winter and works as a photographer during other seasons, contributing to newspapers and magazines. He also plays music with his bands in Poland and jams with other musicians in Japan after work. When the snow conditions are good, he takes breaks from teaching to enjoy snowboarding. He’s in his late 40s, and I assume he’s single to maintain this lifestyle.

Another young instructor teaches snowboarding year-round, dividing his time between Japan and New Zealand. His girlfriend is also an instructor, allowing them to travel and work together throughout the year.

These lifestyles differ from mine and seem like dream lifestyles. Although there are likely many challenges in their lives that I don’t see, learning about them reveals possibilities. I think we should periodically evaluate how we want to live our lives, perhaps every 5-10 years, as time is limited. We could also experiment living a different lifestyle from time to time, which would likely help us appreciate things more.

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Time awaits no one.

Let us savour the seasons of life: curious spring, passionate summer, melancholy autumn, and reflective winter.

May our paths cross before the journeys end.

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Why is everyone so busy?

From The Economist:

The problem, then, is less how much time people have than how they see it. Ever since a clock was first used to synchronise labour in the 18th century, time has been understood in relation to money. Once hours are financially quantified, people worry more about wasting, saving or using them profitably. When economies grow and incomes rise, everyone’s time becomes more valuable. And the more valuable something becomes, the scarcer it seems.

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So being busy can make you rich, but being rich makes you feel busier still. Staffan Linder, a Swedish economist, diagnosed this problem in 1970. Like Becker, he saw that heady increases in the productivity of work-time compelled people to maximise the utility of their leisure time. The most direct way to do this would be for people to consume more goods within a given unit of time. To indulge in such “simultaneous consumption”, he wrote, a chap “may find himself drinking Brazilian coffee, smoking a Dutch cigar, sipping a French cognac, reading the New York Times, listening to a Brandenburg Concerto and entertaining his Swedish wife—all at the same time, with varying degrees of success.” Leisure time would inevitably feel less leisurely, he surmised, particularly for those who seemed best placed to enjoy it all. The unexpected product of economic progress, according to Linder, was a “harried leisure class”.

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Alas time, ultimately, is a strange and slippery resource, easily traded, visible only when it passes and often most highly valued when it is gone. No one has ever complained of having too much of it. Instead, most people worry over how it flies, and wonder where it goes. Cruelly, it runs away faster as people get older, as each accumulating year grows less significant, proportionally, but also less vivid. Experiences become less novel and more habitual. The years soon bleed together and end up rushing past, with the most vibrant memories tucked somewhere near the beginning. And of course the more one tries to hold on to something, the swifter it seems to go.

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Beauty & slowness

December is a good time to slowdown and reflect. And three short books – Seneca’s On the Shortness of Life, Pico Lyer’s The Art of Stillness, and Henry David Thoreau’s Walking – helped put me in a good mindset. In 2015, I hope to develop routines that would give me more time to walk, meditate, and pay more attention to the little beauty in life.

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The History and Future of Everything Put time in perspective.

The Science of Kissing

Everything is a Remix – A documentary on ideas and innovation.

Digital sleight of hand

Without the Doing, Dreaming is Useless – One of the many videos on the creative process from 99U.

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